Hey Ladies! Are You Telling or Naa?
I gotta question for y'all, guys y'all can give your opinion too. If you saw your friend's or family member's boyfriend/girlfriend or even husband/wife cheating would you say anything? It's easy to SAY "Of course I'm telling", but when it actualy comes to doing it how do you tell someone that? Think about the consequences:
maybe they won't believe you
maybe they will and it'll destroy them
Is it really that simple to tell someone news like that? What do y'all think? Have you ever been in this kinda situation? How did you handle it?
Personally, I have been in this situation, somewhat. Someone I barely knew was having an affair with a girl I knew. I didn't know either of them very well, and I didn't know the guy's wife at all. I chose not to say anything because I was so far on the outside of the situation. It would have been different if I was closer to any of them. It was a bad situation and I can't believe some people's choices. Maybe I made the right decision, maybe I didn't. It's hard to say in far out bystander situations.
ReplyDeleteI understand exactly what you mean I myself am in this situation, and it's a little more difficult because this person is like family and his wife, both of them whom I know very well, is or was having an affair with a preacher. He has been through a lot which is the reason I want to tell but also the reason I don't.
DeleteI guess what it comes to is, what goes around comes around!
ReplyDeleteYou just got to keep it real no matter what the situation is
ReplyDeleteif they really mean a lot to you then you will tell them regardless of the consequence. and you'll just help them get through the healing process
ReplyDeleteThanks for the advice!
ReplyDeleteDepends on how well I know them.
ReplyDeleteI would tell my friend, why wouldn't you? I would want them to tell me. If they dont believe me then that's on them.
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